re: on the 2nd front point (hee hee, is this Sun Tzu stuff here?): just to refresh, originally I was thinking of sending him a very long letter and along with a request to meet with him to discuss my M (and his daughter). I want him to be clear to my FIL that things don't add up here. (I just wish someone would have asked her, at some point in the discussion, "are you sure?") I figured out that my plan for a long letter and a meeting was not a good idea (thank you), but I had already raised the idea of a meeting with him. I know he'll mention this to W. So at this point I have to rel it back in. Hence the reason for the email to him.
What do you think now?
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
