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Only if one or both of you is completely selfish, and is actively abusing you and/or the children.

Otherwise, it's just a matter of one or both people being too selfish to act like responsible adults and parents.
That is to say, in those lesser cases, It's not the "best thing to do". It's merely the "easiest thing to do". And/or "best for the ADULT, not best for the children.
Proof of this: because for almost all of those cases, the "reasons for leaving", could be summed up as, "I'm not happy".

That is, by definition, selfish. Not, "for the children".

.... blah, blah, blah...


So sayeth the Morality and Ethics Police Chief, and legend-in-his-own-mind author of "The Book of Should Be's: How **I** Think YOU Should Believe, Act and Feel About YOURSELF, YOUR Children and YOUR Marriage/Sex Life."

Thanks for that sermon, Pastor Don. Not.