I love my H2B! He has a blog, which I read but don't post to. He knows I read it and he's cool with that. His last post was a commentary on his upstairs neighbors fighting. He was thinking back to the way it used to be for us, and the way it is now...he wrote this little nugget:
"In the year we had been apart, she had learned how communicate more effectively, to analyze her own behavior before analyzing mine, and all kinds of neat relationship tricks. I'm sure I learned some things too, but they must have been pretty subtle because I couldn't identify a single thing I changed about my own behavior."
Wow! Of course I had to chuckle at this because he keeps talking about how much I've changed, and I really see myself as the same person I've always been at the core. And of course, I've talked about how much he's grown and changed! ROFL! This is so sweet and so funny and so poignant. I am such a lucky woman!
And yes, I'm hoping to get him on this board sometime to start posting. I think his insights as a WAW returned would be positively invaluable.