Thanks all. Trust me I realize the importance of not jumping in the sack every time (as much as I'd like to) because that does give him his cake so he can eat it too. I'm going to stick to my guns of not contacting him and "wait and watch". I've decided to start going to the gym, which he's been paying for and I've never gone (might as well take advantage of that), and I'm going to look for a little part time job (could really use the extra cash). It truly is amazing how much difference you can make in your life in just 2 or 3 days. Good luck to everyone out there, and me too.
M 29/H32 M 7yrs/1 dog Bomb 10/18 M in apt 11/13/ H in the house 1st now
