Sara and DaveJ, thanks for your support. I guess I am just scared as to what her answer will be. If she says no, I have got to get some backbone and tell her that it is time for her to move on with her life if that is what she really wants. I really dont think she wants to move on, b/c if she does, she will not have her kids around her all the time, plus I think that the house is her comfort blanket and that she really is living in a fantasy world. She wants a D, she wants to be alone, she wants no relationships, she wants out, and she is still here. DaveJ, read some of your sitch, when did you go to your retro weekend, and did it work out
