What have the channels of communication been like with your wife historically? Is she a woman who is generally open to discussing things? Has she got many other close friends who have gone throught the menopause and had problems? Is she the sort of person to read about things that bother her?
If in your gut you feel the nude picture thing was something to make your wife feel better about herself and NOT to go displaying her wares to other suitors then just look at it as a way of her making herself feel attractive. Let her know you have no interest in viewing friend's wives in that way.
Over here we have a program on tv that is all about helping women who feel bad about themselves develop confidence - the final step in each program is for the woman to allow a big billboard photo of herself photographed tastefully naked to be shown in a public place- I don't think your wife's request is as outlandish as some on here think. I think it is something that is giving her a much needed confidence boost. And maybe it is also a way of her reminding you not to stray even if she is unable at the moment to deliver what it is she perceives you need.
We don't know your W - you do - go with your gut.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
