Just as I told you it would happen. She will notice the changes, and then she will spend time being pissed about the changes...You are good to her "now". You have to start from somewhere, right?? Patience, patience and more patience. Saint Tostada is what you gotta be.

You now have to live through a few months of nothing appearing to change. This is a hard phase. BTW, some people get sex. Most get NONE. My wife would bitch if I started at her too much with her cloths ON. Yours goes naked in front of you sometimes.

Keep it up. You are making progress. It will feel like sh*t but I think you are getting to her. You still sound confrontational, and like you have expectations. Lose both and you will do better.

BTW, none of this makes sense to YOU because you are not in her shoes. Stop trying to make sense of any of it. Concentrate on being the best T you can be.

Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted