That IS interesting. I'm glad you feel great, and I'm glad you left him seemingly wanting more. I'm also curious what he'll think now, maybe he'll start thinking of the good times.

One word of caution: I have no idea if this is how it will be, but it's possible that he is trying to get the best of both worlds--he gets the freedom of separation and can avoid the responsibilities of marriage, yet can get his sexual needs met just by giving you a call. If this becomes a regular thing it MAY be prudent to not accept all such invitations, to let him know that he can't just call you for sex and avoid the R otherwise (unless of course you are perfectly fine with that). I'm not speaking from experience, just from my gut.


Me: 43 W: 41
Together 2009, Married 2011
Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5
Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021