The weekend actually went pretty well, until last night I had a backslide. Friday night, after he had a few beers with BIL and SIL that I mentioned in my previous post, he showed up at the house. The kids and I were just hanging out, playing in the basement and he came down. I told him I was going to go rent a movie if he would like to watch it with us. He said he would go get a movie while I gave the kids a bath. We watched movies and he fell asleep on the couch. I put the kids to bed and touched him lightly and said he could come to bed if he wanted to. He didn't respond, so I went to bed. About 30 minutes later he came in and went to sleep with me.
On Saturday morning he left right away to go shower and change. He said he didn't know what he was going to do but he had to go to his work in the afternoon and pick something up, but he said he would call me and let me know what he was doing.
Never called. Kids and I went shopping for Christmas decorations and put them up in the house.
That evening, D3 was upset and crying and wanted her daddy to come over and hold her. After a while of this I told her she could call him. I dialed the phone and she was ready to talk but said he didn't answer. About 20 minutes later, I sent him a text that said, "D3 really wants to talk to you. Could you please call her back if you get a chance." About 30 minutes after that, he showed up at the house again. D3 was so happy and told him that she was trying to call and wanted him to hold her. (I was happy she told him so he didn't think I was making excuses.)
Anyway, he said, "let's watch that other movie we didn't get to last night." S6 asked him if he was going to spend the night and he said no b/c he didn't have any clothes there. Well he fell asleep again on the couch after the movie. Again, I told him he could come to bed. He spent the night again.
That was all good. Yesterday is the day I kind of messed up. I don't have time to write it now but I will check back after awhile. Any comments?
Me: 30 H: 28 Separated: 06/01/07 D bomb: 07/17/07 after me pushing and pushing! #2 bomb: 08/13/07 Once again, I pushed!! #3 bomb: 01/08/08 Previous Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1322680&page=0&fpart=1
