When I got home she could tell I was irritated and I told her that this guy calling my house was a huge slap in the face. I am not sure why this is any different but I was just not happy about it. I told her that while I do not approve of the relationship with OM, I am fine with her wanting to have these conversations but he is not to call my house again!
Clue-by-four coming...
How is it, that you somehow think you can control your wife, and make these kinds of demands about "your house".... yet you are too whipped to stay in "your house"?
Why would your wife want to ever be in a "stable, long term" relationship, with a man who is neither stable, nor long term?
You have abdicated all rights over that house that you may have had. It isnt "your house" any more. You have given it up to your wife. So, making that demand of your wife, had no possibility of good, and did considerable damage on top of it.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
