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[dh4320]

Hi all,

W started emailing me like crazy last night wanting help with money. She wants me to help her into a new place and help with groceries and gas while she is out playing instead of putting her life in order. I told her that she needs to get a job first and we will go from there. She says she wants to see the kids in the evenings but does not want to inconvenience anyone to have to sit there with her. So she is either trying to get me to lift the supervision requirement(which i wont) or she is reaching out for me to say come over and spend time with the kids while i am there. SHe says she is so confused from the mediation(she said it was on tuesday it was actually thursday) so she doesnt even know what day it is half the time. How should i approach letting her see the kids more often, me being around and dbing and laso being firm on my boundaries???? any help would be great///