cva, becuase we all as humans forget the good times and focus on the bad. For everything we have done and were good at and we didnt had any issues with it and times were good - we never got a pat on the back.

Then, we come home late, we go out with our buds, we glance at another woman, we forget to pay a bill and all hell broke loose. This is the way how our brain works. We remember things that makes us upset. What happends next? We brought up all over frustrations of everything single thing we can remember.

No matter how the other person can justify their actions it never works. This is a comment from a police office I talked to when there was an incident. 'You cannot force anyone to love and be with you. Just let it be.' I'm like what the hell, what would you do mister if your marriage was on the brink? And you are telling me that 'just let it be.'

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...