Keep your eye on the ball with law school. Don't let that drop! You'll regret that long after this whole thing takes whatever course it will. He's got to be out of his mind to give up a wife who is intellectually able to complete law school! How could a husband be any more proud of a wife than for doing something this hard!? I agreee with the "dragging thinks out" If he wants out, let him work for it. Also, a lot of guys with "PTSD" who go home and throw the whole thing away, in my opinion, had some issues before they got here. This only exacerbated it. He's at the beginning of a long tunnel here, and an OW will not give him the serenity he's looking for. Most of the success stories I've seen on this board over the year I've been here, the LBS has moved on, has convinced themselves its over, and moved on. If the WAS comes back, so much the better, but if they don't, you''re better prepared to deal with it. Hang in there.