You have to realize that in NEW relationships, women create a whole lot of chemicals in their body that MIMIC desire, that MIMIC that effect of testsoterone. THIS WILL PASS. You could jump ship because you feel this desire, and in 18 months, YOU will be back on here wondering where your desire went AGAIN. Don't FALL for this trap.
Thoses are very good articles written by women to other women trying to explain mens need for sex. Here are a couple of other books that I recomend that you read to understand your husband:
