It sounds like a confrontation might be in order. I know it's hard to know what to do. But I agree again about the sex thing. Sue please think about this please. I would at least use protection. I justheard about a horrible story from my doctor. Of course she didn't mention names with patient confidentiality. But this woman was pregnant and her husband was cheating on her. She was cluless until she went for a check-up after the birth and found out she had herpe's. She will have this disease for the rest of her life. Well, also her husband did admit he was having an affair. She was clean before this and they have been married years. So she knew it had to be him. What's even worse is these little children as she had twins will have to be checked for their life now also. Because they could have contacted the disease through the birth canal. Her husband gave the mumbo jumbo he thought she was clean. She was a really nice woman etc, etc.
It just seems if he is playing the frat boy wild thing he could be doing all kind's of things. Not just with this OW. And who knows where she has been or how many affairs she has had. The doctor was telling me that STD's are on a rampage right now. Expecially herpe's. We got into this convo because I have a 17 year old and they have that new shot out for herpe's. We were talking about the pro's and cons.
But also when you GAL it seems to get noticed by your husband. So why not make some plans and go out yourself. That could be a few nights he has to be sober and stay home with D3.
