You definitely need to stop pursuing her and respect her need for space. I had to learn this the hard way and ended going a month without really ever hearing from my W. I guess that was how long she needed before she could handle talking to or seeing me again. The time needed is different for everyone, so you may need to resign yourself to the fact that this could take a while.

If you respond to her email, you should only validate how she is feeling.

Peace,
B


Me: 29
W: 28
T: 10
M: 7
No kids
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
With Parents: 09/16/07
Apartment: 10/13/07
Back Home: ~2/16/2008

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