Sue..maybe it is time to confront him. Maybe what you're doing now is "more of the same". Mixing things up a little bit might be good.

If you do confront H, do it respectfully and without any anger. Think about what you are going to say and determine if this will bring you closer to your goal.

Just my .02

H4C

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07