On the way back... from what I've read, a WS can never be friends with OM. Its basically inviting an A all over again.

Im not sure how you approach that with W but I would suggest getting the book "Surving An Affair". In that book it explains in detail why a WS cant be "just friends" with OP.

H4C

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07