Get Me On A Smoother Ride....Need Advice #7

[SueS]

Good morning-

Well, just a stinking weekend. H was so good the first few days of last week. Then, turned into a complete a$$.

-H has been sleeping on the couch
-H has barely talked to me & when he does, it's very short & snapping at me.
-H has shown very little concern for D3 and even less for me.
-H has been non stop on his emails.

I mean, how much worse can it get? Really? I mean I know it can get worse. H could leave, but it's like he's not really here now anyway.

I'm angry that he's the way he is with D3. He's been either staying out or up very late, so he's worthless the next day. He told D3 that he wants to see her reading by the time she's 4, but does he spend the time with her? NO!! Yesterday (Sunday), he spent almost the entire day sleeping on the couch. He took D3 out on her sled for a short while late morning, but then slept. He snuck away between 2:30-3:00, as he always does on Sundays to call OW. His excuse was that he had to run to the gas station. Then he got up at 7:00 and left to work out. He came back after 9:00 and didn't say a word. Oh, and let's add that he made lunches.....for him & D3. Now how selfish and childish is that? He couldn't make one for me?

I feel like I need to say.....stop hiding the affair. I see you sneek away every Sunday, I see your YouTube sappy videos, I see it all without snooping.....AND, start spending more time with your D.

Well, I need to get busy. The first of the month is always busy for me.

Have a great day.

SueS