I also want to add that I ALWAYS loved my H even when I went through a LD stage and I can say categorically IT NEVER occurred to me to try sleeping with another guy to see if that was the problem, and my H did work away from home for weeks at a time sometimes.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength