Your pastor's right craig. My friend told me a similar thing the other day: I can either treat all this as the end of my world, or as a liberating opportunity, I can take control of my life now however I see fit. I'm may not be quite ready to fully embrace that yet, but know he's right. Keep on fightin
Me: 43 W: 41 Together 2009, Married 2011 Sons 10 and 6, Daughter 5 Bomb 2/21/21. W moved out 10/2021
ugly weekend, i don't think we exchnged 20 words over the entire weekend, after i laid into her friday afternoon. and what words were spoken were terse and very angry. she spent almost the entire weekend at home, go figure.very uncormfortable.
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I had a lousy weekend also. What is strange is it started out so well (actually compared to the weekend, the whole week was ok). There is something about weekends. This is the second weekend that I lost it. Bottom line is this does not do anybody any good. Don't get me wrong, she probably deserved everything you said and then some but if we are trying to make this work, lacing into them is a definate no no. I am not telling you something you don't know already. Like I said I did this two weekends in a row so I guess I need to find a way to get out of the house next weekend. If you are going to speak twenty lousy words, may as well get out of her face and hope she misses you.
Drew, Did you actually have the conversation yesterday? I am dreading that moment and hope it never comes. Actually, this is probably the #1 reason i want to work at this. I have told WAW in one of my "moments" that I may actually get over her one day and who knows may even forgive her for waht she is putting me through. However, I will never forgive her what what this will do to the kids. She has turned into one hell of a selfish / self centered person. Praying that she comes back a little closer to where she was.
john, i pray for the same thing everyday. i know i set things back a bit. but for some reason i have a line in the sand that when crossed i cannot hold it in. we already told all our children. but they are not youngsters. i know how upset they are. i will not give up though. God has a plan. i just need to stay cool and calm.
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