What would have happened if you went to bed with no PJ's and snuggled for warmth?
What is with people and wearing clothes too bed? NO CLOTHES IN THE GODD#MN BED!!!
you know LFL, I very very rarely have anything that causes me to feel desire, (dont tell anyone) but if I didnt tap that area and generate the feeling and show desire, nothing would ever happen. Once I tap it and get the energy going it will continue from the feedback. emotional energies feed off of each other.
I hear you BF. And I agree. I can be my own worst enemy sometimes. But when I think about it, I know we would have had sex...probably. The sex is not, and never has been, the real issue. I want more than sex from my H. I want to feel desire for him and him for me. It's just not there and never really has been. Always love, but not desire. That's why this thread is so interesting to me.