It was a hectic weekend for me, I was curling and drinking so it was activity based. On saturday night we had a dinner dance and we danced together and truly enjoyed it. My W looked splendid in her new dress and everyone commented on it not just me.
We got home late and still put on some music including our wedding song which is Randy Travis forever and ever amen. I know it hurts my W to hear it sometimes but she was singing along. Granted we were quite drunk. I wanted to get physical, but perhaps best that we did not.
She did mention that she would still like to be friends with the OM. He was around on the weekend watching the action so they exchanged a few words. I have always said that if there is love and happiness at home with us, and they or especially the OM is totally open and honest I can give it a try, but I feel we still have a pile of issues and stuff to deal with before we get there.
I do not know if those feelings by my W are good or bad, but I feel quite good about myself in most respects.
There were people playing from all around the city, and one guy told my W that their whole gang of about 12 or so guys and their wives all come to the tourney because of me. She said not to boost your ego, but she thought that was very nice. It did ofcourse boost my ego as well,