Beauty, Sounds like your hiding out with the kids, and the 5-day road trip was an effective LRT! You might think it was crazy, but it cut right to the heart of the matter. I am in awe!!
I, too, found nude photos of my H and OW in my snooping days. It was not pretty. So she has a messy bedroom, huh? That's funny. I'm thinking ... photos ... enlarging ... billboard. Is that crazy enough? (But I would never do that.)