I don't think it is a case of no-one is listening.
Bombadier has already said that he truly doesn't believe his W is having an A. If she was why not get the OM to take the nude photo's rather than her H. In addition, her sister had a really bad time and went the same way with the menopause.
Are you advocating snooping Corri?
To me, the stripping off and wanting her photo taken nude by her H, implies that she wants her H to view her still as beautiful and as a desirable object. Perhaps she hoped it would help turn herself on and lead to other things. From Bombadiers description of what happened it sounds more to me like that didn't work for her and she got upset about that.
I know many of us on here have had our S's go off and have A's but that isn't the case for all. My H had an A so I am very sensitive about that issue but Bombadier is the one who knows his wife best - not us.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
