Last week, on her day off, she asked me if I wanted to photograph her nude.

That's right. Nude.

I'm an amateur photographer, and I've shot nudes before, but never my wife.


Bomber, when I read this, I immediately thought the same thing as Lil. She knows you way to well to not know this isnt killing you.
Why does she want to get back at you like this?
You really need to think, because somewhere along the way, I think you really hurt her, and probably then tried to talk her out of feeling bad about whatever it was.

Is there any chance you shooting nudes of OW has her feeling hurt or disrespected or rejected? have you ever asked her if you could do nudes of her?
Maybe she figures you like that or are into that so much, she may as well join in and post herself at your favorite sites.
do you have a porn addiction?