What am I thinking while we are being intimate, that I want to make him happy. Not "hurry get it over with", but "what can I do to make him happy"... afterwards, i feel kinda sick to my stomach and am glad that it's over. I know that I'm doing it to see him happy, but i can't seem to kick those feelings.
Ann.. your "feeling sick afterwards" says to me, that it is NOT just that you are "LD", but that there is something more to it.
Please see a professional, to try to sort out what it is.
Last edited by Dom R; 12/03/0706:06 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle