I gave DB to my H and asked him to read the firsth chapter so he would understand some of the reasons as to how we got here. That was a dumb thing to do because althought he said he was reading it (that was months ago) we still separated. Your W wants her space and unfortunately that is what you will have to give her. Your 180 is working, otherwise your W would not have noticed. She isn't ready to accept it though. It has taken you years to get where you are and you won't get back to where you were without it taking a lot of time and work. Unfortunately none of us can tell you exactly what to do get your W back. Do know though that there are people here who will support you and give you strength.
That was a dumb thing to do because althought he said he was reading it (that was months ago) we still separated. Your W wants her space and unfortunately that is what you will have to give her. Your 180 is working, otherwise your W would not have noticed. She isn't ready to accept it though. It has taken you years to get where you are and you won't get back to where you were without it taking a lot of time and work. Unfortunately none of us can tell you exactly what to do get your W back. Do know though that there are people here who will support you and give you strength.
