I have not read your whole story but will when I have time.
My W has had 2 A's that I know of the first 9 yrs ago and you are right about the OP making a comeback.
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what i've found most difficult about this is what it's done to my self esteem. i think about her often as we live in the same town. i worry. i am a very attractive woman, however, this has left me feeling inadequate and self-concious, like i can easily be replaced.
I take it your H came back to you. That shows that you cant be easily replaced and that you can be confident in yourself. Take the attitude that your H is lucky to have you .
