It looks like our sitch is pretty close although Oct 1 is the first time that my WAW really took any action. She said she was not happy after we were married a year but I foolishly told her that we had not been married long and that things will get better when we get used to living together and I get out of school. I guess it never got better for her. Hang in there. I am feeling intense pain too and I feel bad for you and others such as mako. We are all in this bad sitch and it seems for me that it helps to vent things out in these forums. I am sorry that you felt so bad on your anniversary. I hope that the next day will be a better day for you and us all.
ME-30 WAW-28 T-12yrs M-5yrs no kids Bomb 10/1/07 S-10/1/07