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[mrarow]

Help!! I gave W the book Divorce Remedy!! I thought she needed to make educated choices!! We had very bad weekend, she still is having affair and very much in love with other man!! I Spoke with him as well for first time in months and heard same from him that he loves her and will not let up calling and telling her same!! I feel hopeless tonight!! Dieing inside, and so very sad! W tells me she wants to pursue him and can't stop thinking about him. Tells me no love for me anymore just for him. Does not want me and no longer turned on by me. tells me that she married for wrong reasons and wants to love like I love her and be loved same. Does not think she can love me ever again. My 180 for last seven months has done nothing for me as she still feels same as she did when dropping bomb! I was told also that all is great glad to see but its all to much too late and does not have any want to try or give us another chance!!!OMG!! HELP ME I AM SO VERY SCARED!I LOVE HER AND MY GIRLS SO MUCH I CAN'T BEAR TO THINK OF US AS A BROKEN FAMILY!