Jenny
That is good that you and H arer talking again
with my H
I experienced a lot of coldness post bomb
saw constant running out every night and day
many trips
then he seemed friendlier less moody and looked almost numb for a while
we also have experienced many months of pleasant conversations till recently as you have seen on my thread
now H looks a bit more depressed, not all the time
I have no clue about OW
he keeps his life very secretive
he seems younger mentally
interesting how you noticed your H actions with others

my H has always maintained the fact that he is HAPPY when I ask him hes doing good and he did the right thing by leaving
He tells friends our R is over and has been over for years
he believes and tells others we mutually split up
I dont speak with his family..they never called to see how we were..His mom never liked me or any of the kids spouses
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow