Jenny That is good that you and H arer talking again with my H I experienced a lot of coldness post bomb saw constant running out every night and day many trips then he seemed friendlier less moody and looked almost numb for a while we also have experienced many months of pleasant conversations till recently as you have seen on my thread now H looks a bit more depressed, not all the time I have no clue about OW he keeps his life very secretive he seems younger mentally interesting how you noticed your H actions with others
my H has always maintained the fact that he is HAPPY when I ask him hes doing good and he did the right thing by leaving He tells friends our R is over and has been over for years he believes and tells others we mutually split up I dont speak with his family..they never called to see how we were..His mom never liked me or any of the kids spouses peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow