From what I've read MLC'ers show different sides of them with different people. Mine is very similar to yours.

With his friends he is Mr. Studdly. He thinks he is so hot and cool and acts like he is having the wildest sex ever.

With me he is ashamed, guilty, and often angry and irritated.

With his family, he acts as if everything was my fault.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11