Question for anyone stopping by....my H seems to have a different 'mood' depending on who is in the company of. Here with me (when he's here to see the kids) he is either very angry or indifferent. The odd smile when it comes to something D might say or do. With his friends he's "Mr. Nothing's Wrong with Me I'm just fine" At his Mom's where he's staying, he is SO quiet. His Mom is pretty sure he's depressed. He sleeps A LOT while he is there (day or night) and barely eats. They can't even get him to crack a smile and this is NOT like him. He's staying there every night. He leaves here after seeing the kids, barely says a word to his Mom or Sister and goes to bed (by 9PM most nights!).
This is another thing that is confusing me. He wants me to believe that his R with OW is progressing...but as far as I can see it can't be any further along than it was when we were together.
At bomb drop they were broken up because his lies caught up with him and she had dumped him 2 wks prior. Since then they started talking...but I know for a fact that he spends every night at his Mom's. He's here with the kids at least 5 evenings out of the week...and most Friday and/or Sat nights he's with his friends. He works with OW (where no one knows about them, they don't even know we're separated)...but he is only in the office 2 or 3 days a week and he isn't there all day. In fact his sister confirms he's there sleeping on the couch a lot during the day (not working too hard lately). Besides a business trip for a trade show a couple weekends ago...when is he actually seeing her? I mean he wants me to believe it's all serious, but is it all based on phone conversation or what??
Does anyone else have an MLCer whose showing different moods depending on who they're with? Also...any thoughts on this OW thing??
I know I'm in a little bit of 'focus on him' mode today...but my mind has been working overtime the last couple days and I have to get it out of my system. J~
