Hi Barbiere, How are you doing today? Do you have any kids? Today things went pretty well. I have been detaching. My H came over to get my son to go bowling, he came in our house for a couple minutes but stood by the front door. He fixed our inflatable snow globe on the front lawn without me asking. I called my son and asked if they were going to the vitamin shoppe if they could get me vitamin C. my son said my H stopped there just for me to get it. Then they went to CVS for oatmeal and H bought me mini lights for my wreath on my front door. H came to drop my son off but I wasnt home. my son told him I probably went ice skating. My H said "ice skating, with who?". Even though im in my 40s people tell me im attractive and I keep myself in good physical condition. Im tall and thin with blonde hair and green eyes. So I dont think i would have trouble attracting someone new if my H didnt want to be M to me anymore. But I want more than anything for our marriage to work. the o/w he had A with wasnt as attractive as me. She had a crater face and wasnt as thin or attractive as me. Then they went to my MIL house. I went over to pick up my son and H got up right away to answer the door. He was being really nice to me. I didnt go in though. H gave me some money for the week too. I am so happy. Im feeling hopeful again. Yesterday I felt like he hated me. But he's coming around again. That is one things that the DB coach said to me, that "it seems like he comes around again very quickly, that's a good sign". Thank God!
