Thanks guys.. not sure it's DB'ing though. I know the mantras are GAL and detach.. I think those are coming quite a bit easier.
I've just made up my mind to no longer be her doormat.
So.. she called on the way back from dinner (dinner was a bust by the way.. all of the Pizza Huts are closing around here) and she immediately attacked. "Oh.. now you answer your phone.. what's up with not answering and ignoring me"
I told her my phone was on vibrate (call the house phone goof!!) and I didn't have it on me. Seemed to placate her.
I immediately handed the phone to the girls.. she talked to D's and when the phone made it back to me, I was distracted by the girls. She hastily said she had to go. I said "OK.. bye" and hung up.
Tomorrow morning will be interesting when I drop D's off. She likes to stir things up then.
I'll just walk out.. no time for the drama anymore.