A question for the ladies

[Corri]

BF:

All of them made some comment pointing to the fact that I am not in a LTR, as if that is some sort of standard to be held to.

Oooohhhhh. I see. No... my comment came from this thread directly, and no, I don't think you should be in an LTR, but... then again... that's just MY opinion, and it won't even buy a cup of coffee. {Maybe it would, my opinions, if I sang them, a little off key... and a pouty lip...}

ut I am not a woman, and I wont be forced into a womans frame of referance. so you avoid intimacy with your long distance R, and enjoy your serial monogamy, and Ill be happy for you, and not try to convince you my way is better, and Ill avoid intimacy in my way.

Deal.

no. her biggest desire is children. If she has had children, then she doesnt need a tool anymore, she can go chase her desire. her children are not necessarily from mating with her provider/protector choice, she got what she wanted, and its her little secret.

If her desire is to have children, and she already has children... she is free to chase her desire... but her desire is children... I'm confused.

I always got the feeling x just wanted me for a college fling, and as soon as I dropped into the provider role, she banged the dominant guy. Mission accomplished, I got played, my congratulations to her.

"I got played." Sounds like my version of he should have known better and I was too young. Different words. Same 20/20 hindsight observation. IMO.

just curious if you can spot yourself trying to squeeze a man into a feminine frame. since you keep trying, apparently not. Then again, maybe you want to try, but not be succesful.

Touche.

I hope not. take the hairshirt off. (IC, and HD join blackfoot in waiting for corri to remove her hairshirt. any bets on leather or lace, underneath? I got my fingers crossed for neither, LOL. )

I did. And what lies beneath is my little secret.

bitter for you XH? I think not. Im not even bitter about mine.

That's not how your last post sounded. At least to me. If you're not bitter, you're not bitter, and I'll take your word for it.

Yep. No problems with that. 50/50 means I take care of my fences and she takes care of her fences. I guarantee she cannot maintain my fences. and if she steps out of our fence, Im going to mend it instantly and she will be outside the fence, free to start her own farm. Im done belaboring the fences.

Welp. It's the first time I actually understood your 'fence' analogy, quite honestly. what with you being so clear and direct and all, I must have been obtuse.

I wonder how many 18, 19 year old boys who in the middle of a fire fight said, when the blood and guts where flying and oozing, "I didnt know what I was doing, I was too young to sign my life away to the government". probably more then a few. I wondered how it worked out for them and their team when they either started pointing their guns at each other, or threw down their guns and ran away. lol.

Probably a bit like a farmer who never expected to get shat on, I'd say, even though he bought a farm. j/k