Angelica,

Confusion is so true. I said something last night about us not shopping together this year. He has a boat-load full of apartment stuff in his car and I'm tired of pretending.

This afternoon when the kids were gone he said we'd start shopping Tuesday evening.

I'm not planning on taking him with me to my office Christmas party Friday night. It's at a very posh country club in our area and he looks like such a disaster with his 3 day beard, and his MLC fashion. I am just not in the mood. And, I'm terrified he'd get there and start drinking and humiliate me. No way. I don't know how I'll handle it if he mentions it, but I could just be as blunt as him and tell him he's not attractive to me and I feel nothing for him.

What do you think?

Hugs,
Sun


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