My H told me of the A. Apparently he had been leaving hints but I was too trusing to pick up on them - he had mangaed to make me really think I was imagining things. he eventually told me when OW had left her H and kids and was trying to push my H into trying to get me to leave the marital home!!!!!!
Things got very nasty for about a week. I tried to commit suicide - not something I would recommend. My psychiatrist told my H what an idiot he was being and then H asked me to help him get rid of OW - so I did.
I still can't beleive the audacity of a woman that would come into my home and accept my hospitality whilst having designs on my H. Basically she wanted my life. Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength