I offered long ago for all of us to go. For that matter.. I've offered quite a bit over the last couple of months. They are all off the table now.

I'll take advice on this.. I had mentioned to W that we could all take the D's to see Santa. I'm thinking about proposing separate trips.

One for Daddy's house and One for Mom's house.

I don't want to confuse the D's, but I'm really not interested in trying to schedule something with her.

I'd almost rather just take them and deal with the fallout, but I would be upset if she did that to me.

Any suggestions?