I can definately relate to the problem of insomnia. I think this ia one of the reason me and my H started having problems a year and a half ago. H liked to go to sleep with the tv on and he would get up really early for work. I could not sleep well with the tv and the alarm because I had become a very light sleeper because of perimenopause. so I started to sleep in the guest bedroom for 5 mos. This was very bad for our M and I realize it now. He started having A in Nov '06 I think it was because of lack of sex. now it seems like he want out of our M after getting a taste of living in his own apt and living the single life. I am so sad.
