Sandi2 However, I may not have any problems soon about any sexual desire for anyone,
Is that an excuse not to pay some (special to him) attention to your H?????
I try to put myself in your and his place. I was thinking if BB and I were in your shoes and she said "Lou go take a shower, put on XYZ clothes while I make a pot of coffee ( or favorite what ever) and then hold my hand while we watch "The Wizard of OZ" ( or what ever you guys like) that might be a warming time.
One forum that deals with EA/PA advises to touch base with the spouse when the errant spouse who post is tempted to contact the OM/OW.
I don’t know a lot about OW/OM R’s but I do know about relying on forum friends and the bonds or connection I have felt or the advice I sought from cyber friends. I will say I had a partial addiction to reading and posting. I do/did get caught up in other’s R mostly because I wanted their R to work for them. I felt bad when their R was going down hill or they were hurting.
In some ways, some or many people rely on cyber R’s for many reasons. Maybe the reasons for you feeling a need to contact the OM are similar. Just wondering Sandi?
