Manyloo, I know my H would love for me to sell our home and move, before he left he said if we ever got back together it could never be in this house.

After leaving he could visit, but he was on edge, he has stated that he lawyer has told him he mustn't visit the house again, utter rubbish.

I know it hurts him to visit, and I don't think it is because of bad memories.

Our H's avoid pain, it possible would hurt your H to show people around a house that was once the place he shared with his family.

If I was made to sell, there is no way I could show potential owners around it would hurt me so much.