Hi Hurtin, They are all so right. I am still waiting for my H to return home but I do think it will happen, probably not as soon as I would like though. My H's OW was states away too. I do believe she is out of the picture now but it's still hard. My H is like Saffie's, never wants to be seen as the bad guy. The OM won't last. It is really hard to let go, I know. It's taken me a long time and I still struggle. But I am doing better with GAL and now am working on letting him come to me. Hang in there.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA