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micoms,
hi, noticed your post ref. W state of mind.

Micoms, I don't want to scare you but kids and you should be starting to become very concerned about your W. mental state.

To me, from my own experience, your W sounds as if she is in very deep depression. sleeping a lot, not returning kids phone calls, lost contact with friends, no interest in anything, knows she doesn't feel like herself, this has been going on for months. ISOLATING herself!
Maybe one of her Ds could convince her to see her family Dr. and even go with her. Talk about how she is feeling and what is going on in her life. Her abnormal work schedule alone would send me into depression. Depression not only being very very painful to live through, 10% of all depressed people committ suicide !!!! Please talk with your kids and express to W how worried you are about her. Please, I have for years fought bouts of sever depression and it is not a state of mind. This is a real medical condition caused by chemical inbalance. Without these chemicals your W may keep going down down. she can control this about as much as a diabetic can attitude their blood sugar levels and the affect.
Also most likely suffer some SAS. Another know cause of depression.
Well now at least i have that off my chest. When ever I hear of someone in depression, my heart goes out to them
When H walked out,the first 4 or 5 months I worked and worked to get him into medical care. OW didn't ! I tried before he left, but his illness working against him. convinced him i was going to have him locked up in a mental hospital for ever !!!!!! He even pulled his HIPA form so our family Dr. could not talk to me about his condition. The dr. lied to me, so as to not have to say H requested it be pulled and to this day we no longer have the same comfort relationship patient to Dr. He is such an outstanding Dr. I sorta hate to leave him. planning to change to another dr. just keep putting it off. In Dr. defense H told me, Erck (dr) begged him not to do this as we were both his patient and he knew this was going to end his and my patient dr relationshp which it did .!
Day H walked out, I had been to a Dr. appointment and when I came home to find him gone. I even had the state police looking for him as I feared he was going to kill himself. Yes, he ran to OW but like I said for months stayed on top of his medical care. Even paid for quite a bit of it out of my pocket.

I sorry your son is unable to get into a police force job. He could always come to City of Elmira and take their exam. Sometimes they like to hire out of area persons to force. That might help him. Myself it always enraged me, someone could drop out of high school, join army, get their GD, college courses and come back with veterans status. While the rest of us were being responsible people in college and yes studying hard for good grades.!
well i am out of dog food so have to go buy some before pet store closes