Can you make space IN the home you're in, rather than have to sell it?
Effectively that is what we have been doing for nearly 18 months now. But with her constant refrain that 'ultimately' she wants to be by herself. Big moves on that front have been postponed due to me not playing ball / rolling over so far, the immediate needs of the children - not to 'disrupt' them - (like having an affair with a married man does not disrupt anything, eh?). Perhaps there is some long-term arrangement we could devise, but if you asked her right now she would say, 'no way... I want out'.... and yet she is not doing anything dramatic about it.
I'm staying in the house because...
- I want to stand by the children - Why the hell should i move anyway - My lawyers have told me not to budge - I feel if I go then all will lost
