Racer Chick... I was in a similiar situation. ALthough I want with my W and she was proceeding with D, I met a girl and thought she was my soul mate.

The books are right, the infatuation wears off. My W called off the D in hopes of reconciliation but I thought I was in love with my new girl.

Now the tables have turned, I realized this girl was just an infatuation and that I really loved and missed my W.

Now she has an OM!!! UGH! I kick myself for not trying during when she wanted me back, but I was so wrapped up in my new R that I just didnt see it.

You would be wise to think this out before making any moves, take it from me, I now live with these HUGE regrets.


Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07