Have you read Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy? IMHO, and something I wish I had done a better job at, is that your W is an alien right now and no amount of logic will work.
The decision you have to make regarding the phone is what will it change? Does it matter? On one hand, I would want her to know that I know. It is a respect thing for me. On the other hand, what does it matter?
You made a good call on moving back in. The worst thing for your legal case is to move out.
Good luck. Send me an e-mail at mcojh@yahoo.com I have a ? for you.
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
