Thanks Jenny. I really trying to learn to just roll with things. I think that I'm in the friendship stage of the separation and it's the hardest yet. But then again, you always think that the stage you're in is the hardest.
One hard thing about yesterday was that she kept making comments about wanting to take the dogs home with her and joint custody and junk. I know that this couldn't happen since her apartment doesn't allow pets. So I let it slide without saying anything, just a smile. Inside I wanted to tell her that there was no way in hell that I was going to let her take the dogs. If she wanted to see them or be with them then she had to come home. But this isn't something that a friend would say, so I didn't do anything. Just had to vent a little.
Just being a friend is hard work, but I know that it's also an important foundation to a relationship. So, I'm going to work hard at it.
Peace to all, B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008