Thanks Jenny. I really trying to learn to just roll with things. I think that I'm in the friendship stage of the separation and it's the hardest yet. But then again, you always think that the stage you're in is the hardest. \:\)

One hard thing about yesterday was that she kept making comments about wanting to take the dogs home with her and joint custody and junk. I know that this couldn't happen since her apartment doesn't allow pets. So I let it slide without saying anything, just a smile. Inside I wanted to tell her that there was no way in hell that I was going to let her take the dogs. If she wanted to see them or be with them then she had to come home. But this isn't something that a friend would say, so I didn't do anything. Just had to vent a little.

Just being a friend is hard work, but I know that it's also an important foundation to a relationship. So, I'm going to work hard at it.

Peace to all,
B


Me: 29
W: 28
T: 10
M: 7
No kids
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
With Parents: 09/16/07
Apartment: 10/13/07
Back Home: ~2/16/2008

Current Thread