Jenny, for sure you put the SUPER in Supermom! Great title! Here are my thoughts for you since I haven't given any in awhile: 1. Sorry H had a CRAPPY day yesterday. HaHa! (Couldn't resist that one.) 2. Do what you have to do to help S and yourself get a good nights sleep. I'm sure H doesn't realize each child is so different. My first D was an easy baby. I always said if my second D was my first she would have been an only child. H was busy with an EA and life was tough then. You will make it through. 3. Glad to hear you are getting out of the house. Also good to see H had to stay there and see what it is like to take care of sick D. 4. We all snap sometimes. I admit, for 19 years I was a nagger. I have stopped that (big 180), so I think when I asked something of H he realizes I mean it and I see better results. 5. Most of all I hope D is feeling better.